Body: Being in love can be difficult. Admitting your love can be even more so. So becoming a secret admirer is a good option for the shy lover. Sending flowers, especially roses to a special person anonymously is not only fun, but can lead to an enduring love.
1. What is a secret admirer?
A secret admirer is somebody who is in love. However, they are either too shy or reserved to admit their feelings. Therefore, the secret admirer sends anonymous notes or gifts to the object of their affection. They do this in hope that when they reveal their identity, their devotion will be rewarded
2. What does a secret admirer send?
A secret admirer sends gifts of many varieties. Some secret admirers send notes or emails, others send flowers or gifts. The most effective secret admirers start with a short note or email that states simply; ‘I’ve noticed you and I like you’. After that, they send larger items such as roses or toys. The key is to remain anonymous and create curiosity.
3. What sort of gifts should a secret admirer send?
It is important that the gifts are small and cannot be traced back to the sender. Larger gifts can be intimidating and frightening. Small tokens of love, such as chocolates or single blooms are best. Many secret admirers just write notes or send cards. This is a less intimidating way of expressing admiration. Many websites cater to secret admirers by providing an anonymous email service. Remember that anonymous emails should be fun and sweet, not intimidating or threatening.
4. What is the best time to be a secret admirer?
Secret admirers are common on Valentine’s Day. Often teachers will get students to send anonymous messages of admiration to classmates on that day. This is an exercise in appreciating the good characteristics of their peers.
For more serious lovers, Valentine’s Day is a good excuse to send a gift anonymously. A single blossom on Valentine’s Day can arouse a great deal of curiosity in the recipient.
5. What can go wrong?
Sometimes a secret admirer becomes a stalker. This happens when the admirer begins to make inappropriate suggestions in notes or starts to wait outside houses or homes. Stalking can also happen via social networking sites and become frightening for the person being admired. Notes and cards from a secret admirer should be humorous and intriguing, not threatening and violent.
6. Does being a secret admirer work?
For a secret admirer to be successful, they have to time the revelation of their identity. The purpose of being a secret admirer is to arouse curiosity in another person. This curiosity can then lead to a situation where the secret admirer and their love interest start to date
The best way for a secret admirer to reveal their identity is to wait until the object of love suggests it. Then a meeting can be arranged in a public place. If the recipient agrees to the meeting, then the admirer has succeeded in arousing their curiosity. This leads to hope for a progression in the relationship.
Being a secret admirer is a fun and thrilling experience for the admired and the admirer. Creating a little mischievous adventure can result in the development of a lifelong love affair.